How to be a smart shopper

Photo of a Happy ShopperThere’s a reason why personal shopping services are becoming more and more popular among everyday women; most of us don’t particularly enjoy shopping for clothes. The thought of sifting through racks, waiting in queues to try clothes on (not to mention waiting in queues to make your purchases)  and then making decisions about whether or not something suits, or if you even like it, is time consuming and can be frustrating and exhausting.

Shopping for clothes doesn’t have to be an impossible chore if you take the time to plan your shopping trip. Here are some tips to help you survive your next outing.

1. Have a plan. At the beginning of each season go through your wardrobe and make a list of what you need and keep it in your handbag. Identify those key pieces you already have in your wardrobe that can easily be updated with new season trends. This will ensure that you stay focused on the items you really need.

2. Set yourself a budget and stick to it. Knowing what you have to spend will help you maintain focus on items you know you can afford. Instead of using your credit card, take out your budget in cash and spend this. If you are drawn to something that is beyond your budget, ask yourself how many times you would wear it in a year and then work out the cost per wear. If you’re still not sure, think about it overnight.

3.  Dress comfortably and practically. There’s nothing worse than having to undo and do up buttons and tie and untie shoe laces every time you try something on. Wear clothing that is easy to take on and off which won’t leave you flustered in the change rooms. If you know you’re heading out to buy a dress, take some heels and wear a strapless bra. Shopping for jeans, wear a basic tee or shirt. Shopping for shoes, wear a pair that you easily can slip on and off. 

4. Shop alone or with a friend? This is a tough one. If you do choose to go it alone, be confident about what you want and what you want to spend (i.e. follow the tips above). While some sales assistants can offer great advice and can show you different styles and source sizes for you, many do not offer honest advice on what does and doesn’t suit you. But the same can be said for friends. Shopping with others can cause distractions and not all friends can offer the right advice. If you do choose to shop with others, choose an objective friend who you trust to be brutally honest and who will tell you th784040_clothes_and_hangerse truth about what suits you.

5. Take your time. Go shopping when you know you have plenty of time to do it. This will allow you to make decisions out of reason, not rush. Don’t fly into the nearest store in a panic because you need something now or go browsing in the shops every time you have a few spare moments (after a coffee, in between meetings). Take your time when trying on clothes. Try them on, walk in them, sit down, bend in the clothes. Are they comfortable? Ideally, find a change room with mirrors that you can see all angles. Don’t rely on anyone else but you to ask “does my bum look big in this?”

Shopping for clothes is unfortunately one of life’s necessities. By following the advice above, perhaps it might become a necessity worth enjoying.

Sally Mackinnon

Styled by Sally
www.styledbysally.com.au

Buying ‘Ethikl’

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A new online marketplace connecting ethical shoppers with small artisan producers of natural, organic and handmade and fair trade products has launched today at http://www.ethikl.com.au/

Specialising in organic produce and handmade goods, Ethikl is a one-stop-shop for sellers and buyers wanting to make a positive impact on the planet and themselves through their shopping decisions.

In the tradition of a local farmers’ market, Ethikl caters to small artisan producers who use organic, natural, or recycled ingredients or make their products by hand and have limited exposure. Sellers have the opportunity to set up virtual storefronts to post their wares and share information.

“At Ethikl, shoppers have a similar experience to visiting a farmers’ market where there is the opportunity to discover amazing local goods from passionate producers. With social networking features to help shoppers get to know sellers, Ethikl is all about connecting consumers directly with the producers,” says Peita Gardiman, founder of Ethikl.

“What’s more, there’s no limit to what’s available. From private farms to home kitchens, all the products for sale on Ethikl are high-quality and free from artificial ingredients. For example, at Ethikl, people in Sydney can order handcrafted children’s clothes from designers at Eumundi Markets in Queensland or buy organic herbal chai tea direct from an organic farmer in Mullumbimby. “Most people simply don’t have access to these kinds of handmade products and artisan food makers,” she says.

According to Peita, one of the main aims of Ethikl is to promote and support the ethical consumer movement and encourage shoppers to make positive buying decisions, such as favoring ethical products, be they fair trade, cruelty free, organic, recycled, re-used, or produced locally.

\”One of our goals is to change the way the economy works and begin to change people’s consumption habits. Many people are tired of mass produced, chemically- packed products and want to get back to basics,” says Peita.

“We live in a culture of excess, we want more and more and then throw it away faster and faster. When you buy something from Ethikl, there’s a story behind it. There’s a person behind it. If people start to rediscover handmade, natural products, they will learn to treasure them and become more ethical consumers.”

Stocking products ranging from jewellery to homewares to food and drink, Ethikl is the place to shop.  Visit www.ethikl.com.au today.

Staying Organised in 2010

When New Years rolls around, being more organized is on almost every top ten list of resolutions!

The start of a new year is a great opportunity to take a look at some new storage solutions, as having messy storage spaces for your shoes, jewelry or cosmetics is frustrating and can waste a lot of time. Reducing clutter around the house and keeping a simple To-Do list are some very achievable ways to be more organized and lower your stress levels, which is something I’m sure we could all use!

Did organization top your list of resolutions this year? If so, I’ve tracked down 5 products for under $35 each to help you stick to that goal in style – and they’re all available online.

5. Dumpling Dynasty Sewing Kit

5 - Sewing KitWith its beautiful vintage-inspired design, this tin box is filled with everything you need for those sewing emergencies. The kit includes quality scissors, pins, needles, reels of cotton, safety pins, a thimble, tape measure, seam ripper and buttons – tools this cute should motivate you to finally fixing those clothes that have been shoved in the back of your closet!

$29.95, available at Cradle Rock.

 

 

 

4. Allure Lipstick Cosmetics organizer.4. Lipstick Organiser

Howard’s Storage World has a fantastic range of products to help keep everything in its place. No more rummaging through drawers or messy cosmetics bags! The high quality clear acrylic wipes clean easily and lets you find your favourite lipstick at a glance.

$29.95, available at Howard’s Storage World

 

 

3. Jewelry Stand

 

3. Spinning Bird Jewelry Stand

Urban Outfitters now ships to Australia! If you’re anything like me, you’ve misplaced so many earrings you’ve lost count. This dainty jewelry stand has multiple rows of metal, dotted with holes for earring posts. It spins for easy access, making it a fresh alternative to a jewelry box!
$32.00, available at Urban Outfitters

 

 

 

2. Komplement Shoe Box2. Shoe Boxes

Love to splurge on heels? Protect your shoes and store them neatly with these stackable boxes from Ikea! Transparent plastic window lets you see your shoes through the drawer.
$19.99 (pack of 4), available at Ikea

 

 

1. Chalkboard Wall Decal1.Victorian Style Vinyl Decal / Wall Chalkboard

I used to write To-Do lists on post it notes, until I realised I was always losing them! I’ve found chalkboards to be a great alternative – not only do they save on paper, but they can be placed in an area you will be sure to walk past. This Victorian style chalkboard (also available as a whiteboard) is great for organization and adds a touch of style to any room.

Dinosaur, butterfly, love heart and apple chalkboard designs are also for sale on Etsy, perfect for children’s bedrooms!

$32.00, available through Spell it Out Designs on Etsy.

 

 Kate Ferguson is a freelance illustrator and graphic designer who loves to shop! Her work will be featured in two group exhibitions coming up in Sydney in February, This Little Piggy and Aloha! Tiki! Luau!

Kate also contributes to the Junk Food Clothing blog.

Take Me Anywhere But There!

Aaaahhh! Shopping!

What a loaded word that is. It means so many things to so many people. For some it’s the ultimate pleasure. Others find it to be a necessary evil.

The Macquarie dictionary defines shopping as “the act of someone who shops” and also as “to visit shops for purchasing or examining goods”.

672133_gifts_for_youThere are people who find shopping to be a wonderful pastime. They can spend hours and hours browsing the shops, looking for who knows what. Many times they can’t remember what it is that sent them out to forage and hunt – they just do it. And all the while they’re enjoying the activity as much as the sports fan who likes to go to the football, or the bookworm who enjoys a visit to the library.

It makes me wonder why some people like to shop while others do not. In many cases it’s the female of our species that seems to enjoy this pursuit as a pleasurable experience. Have a look around the shopping centre and count how many men are sitting on the seats reading a newspaper. They appear to be so patient, waiting for their female partner who is browsing the nearby stores. (Yes, yes, I can hear you saying – “if you only knew”)

I’m also curious about the belief that ‘women are born with a shopping gene’. If that is really the case, then I surely missed out. My mother and sisters all love to ‘shop’ and their idea of a great ‘girls day out’ always includes some time at a shopping centre. And when they’re travelling – they make sure to visit all the shops, regardless of the fact that many of them are exactly the same as the ones at home.

You should have seen them when we went to Hong Kong! It was at that point in my life that I truly began to question if I had been adopted at birth. Surely I couldn’t have been related to these women who insisted on visiting every single shop that was there? I don’t think we missed any of them, and to top it off, we almost missed the plane home because I couldn’t get them out of the shops in the airport terminal. They shut the doors behind us as we clambered aboard the aircraft.

Regardless of whether you’re a ‘shopaholic’ or not – here’s a couple of tips from my book – Money Tips from the Budget Bitch to give you something to think about when you’re next having a shopping trip –

1. Don’t go shopping to cheer yourself up when you’re feeling miserable.
Yes, I know… all the self-help books tell you to “buy yourself something nice” when you’re feeling down in the dumps. Well goodness me – there must be thousands of people out there feeling miserable every day. How much more miserable will you feel when you see the credit card statement at the end of the month?

You don’t have to go shopping. There are plenty of other things you can do. Try taking a walk, riding a bike, flying a kite. Perhaps you could try reading a book, doing some gardening, or maybe even just talking to somebody.
 “Getting out of the house” doesn’t mean you have to go shopping.
Make a list of all the things you would like to do, rather than all the things you would like to buy.

2. Don’t use window-shopping as a regular form of entertainment.
This will leave you feeling dissatisfied with your life and all that you have. You will begin to ‘want more than you can afford’. Sure, it might not cost anything to window-shop at this point in time, but the long-term costs can be horrendous.

There are many other forms of entertainment that cost the same in the short term but which have much more positive long- term benefits.

With Christmas but a few weeks away might I wish all you shopaholics a happy time and for the others like myself – happy endurance test!

Carmel McCartin is known as The Budget Bitch.  She specialises in Personal Budget Planning, Budget Coaching and Budget Education enterprise.

Carmel writes for the Border Mail Newspaper and is the author of “Money Tips from the Budget Bitch”

Tempting and Inspirational for Christmas

I love shopping, particularly online, which I guess is what inspired me all those years ago to establish an online gift store.  Now that I have traded in my store for a behind the scenes online career, my love of shopping has definitely not dwindled.

In preparation for the upcoming holiday season, I have put together a selection of quality gifts to whet your appetite.

shortbread1.  Crabtree and Evelyn Festive Shortbread Tin

 

Christmas is just not Christmas without the gourmet gifts surrounding the table to ruin your diet and spoil your dinner.  One of my particular guilty treats is traditional shortbread.  This gift from Crabtree and Evelyn comes beautifully presented in a festive tin which harks back to uncomplicated times and simpler pleasures.

Available to purchase from Peter’s of Kensington

 

alex2.  Alex and Lulu

Quality books are certainly not hard to come by but nevertheless, I am quick to purchase any new titles which catch my eye.  Alex and Lulu is a gorgeous little tale about two friends who just couldn’t be any different if they tried.  Alex is worried that they may be opposites.  Lulu explains the meaning of opposites and shows Alex that it is their differences that make them best friends. How cute is that!

 

Available to purchase from Amelie’s Room

 

 

 

bracelet3.  Floral Lampwork Bracelet

I love interesting and original jewellery creations.  This pink and black floral lampwork bracelet is both classic and feminine and is finished off beautifully with the sterling silver floral clasp.  It is suitable for jewellery lovers of all ages. 

Available to purchase from Beaded Creations

 

 

4.  Evening’s Empire: The Story Of My Father’s Murder

EmpireWhen he was just six years old, Zachary Lazar’s father, Edward, was shot dead by hit men in a Phoenix, Arizona parking garage.  The year was 1975 and it soon became clear that Lazar was murdered in a Mafia hit to prevent his testimony before a grand jury investigating the rampant land fraud and political and institutional corruption existent in Arizona in the 70′s.  A fascinating true crime read based around a son’s attempt to reconstruct the sequence of events that led to his father’s murder.

Available to purchase from Booktopia

 

5.  Sunshine Cleaning

cleaningFor those that tire of the Christmas themed television shows and reruns featured on television, it is particularly useful to have a DVD on hand.  Sunshine Cleaning is about two sisters Norah (Emily Blunt) and Rose (Amy Adams) who attempt to start up a cleaning business specialising in the cleanup of crime scenes and biohazard removal.  From the producers of Little Miss Sunshine and also starring Alan Arkin, this refreshing movie will warm your heart.   

Available to purchase from Fishpond

 

 

6.  Zingo!

Zingo!

Board games are back in vogue and Zingo! is a fun and easy game for the whole family.  Similar to bingo, it uses a fun Zingo! Zinger to release the cards.  The first to yell out Zingo is the winner.  It is recommended for children aged 4 to 8.

Available to purchase from PeeDee Toys

 

Michelle Sweeney is an avid shopper and movie buff.  In order to fund her shopping and movie spending sprees, she also works as a ghost writer and virtual assistant specialising in online research, article writing and  blog management.  For further information visit her website

Its All About You this Christmas

1229519_55738725I don’t know about you, but I’m one very busy mamma and don’t often have the luxury of popping off to the shops to spend some leisurely time purchasing essentials for myself.

Things like new shoes without holes, jeans and tops that actually fit.

Or another handbag I don’t need, and shoes with holes in trendy places that I also don’t need.

You know? Essentials!

It’s usually a mad rush, grab something that appears suitable at the time, race home again and discover it’s not at all appropriate, but have to wear it anyway as I have nothing else.

So when it comes to Christmas shopping … argh!

Or not.

I do pride myself on being very select when it comes to the purchasing of gifts. It is my “thing” and it’s important to me that everyone gets the present that is perfect for them.

I, quite literally, have to take a day (or several) just to do the Christmas shop, spending hours making sure I have the right gift for the right person. Sometimes, it is to the detriment of my own sanity … but when the gift opening is done, everyone has something special and personal.

That’s the plan, anyway.

What invariably happens is, Christmas list tucked neatly and accessibly in bag, that I suddenly find I have all this … time … no interruptions, no need to rush off/back/away to something else, no kids to hang off me or open changing room doors when I’m bending over with my bum facing the wall.

Not that I’m supposed to be in change rooms at all! I’m supposed to be purchasing for others.

Yet hear I am! Trying stuff on, with time to spare …

I even get to compare, contemplate and coffee! I have time to look around, check out prices and different options, styles and features.

And there I am, walking towards my car in the car park, laden with bags of various sizes and branding. I feel as though I’ve achieved something, ticked off the list, and completed the job.

*sigh*

Now all I have to do is find the time to go back to the shopping centre, relocate my Christmas list and actually buy stuff for others.

Merry Christmas xo

Written by Mad Cow, mum to three “I want everything for Christmas”  boys, wife to one of those really annoying “I don’t want anything for Christmas” husbands, prolific needer of pleasing to all, and Present Recipient Lover. Also prolific needer of time to buy herself stuff. And prolific needer of wine …

Where’s Your Money Going?

Have you ever wondered where your money goes? Does it seem to disappear into a black hole and even though you know you haven’t spent much, it’s just vanished?

Well, here’s a thought – go and have a look in your cupboards. Yes, that’s right – your cupboards – all of them. You’ll probably discover that whilst your wallet is empty – your cupboards are full. You’ll possibly even find that some of your cupboards are over-flowing.

Let’s dissect a couple of the obvious money-eating cupboards.

The bathroom cabinet/s: How many tubes of toothpaste are in there? How many bottles of shampoo? And how many of those bottles are still half full? How many razors, bars of soap, deodorants or jars of hair products can you see? Of course – the really big one – how many rolls of toilet paper are there?

I know many people who have a ‘toilet-paper-fetish’. One girl has a whole shelf in her linen cupboard to store the rolls that can’t fit into her laundry cupboard. Another family has 105 rolls. Now considering they only use 4 rolls per week, that’s a 26 week supply, which is six months! But they still keep buying it because “it was on special”. Let me assure you – there is a ‘special price’ on toilet paper every week. If you don’t absolutely need to buy it, then you are not saving anything. In fact – you are wasting money!

Picture1Let’s move on… your pantry. How many bottles of sauce are in there? How many tins of fish, fruit, or beans can you find? Can you count the packets of biscuits, cake mix, cereal, jellies and pasta? When was the last time you saw the back of the shelves? Put your hand on something from the back of the cupboard and check the use by date. Is it still current?

Your pantry might be ok, but how’s your linen cupboard looking? How many towels and sheets are sitting there, still in their packaging, waiting to be used? I know lots of people that constantly buy linen because they found it at a good price in a ‘linen sale’ and I just don’t understand why, if there are only 2 people living in a house, you would need 10 sheet sets.

How many cupboards are in your house? How much empty space is in those cupboards? You know, it’s quite ok to have empty shelves!

.The world economy might be looking gloomy – but the supermarkets are not going to close down overnight. It is not necessary to have a mini-supermarket in your house unless there is a sign out the front that says “welcome to the XXXX Family supermarket”.

A few months ago, I visited a family of ‘shopaholics’. They have a very large house, which also means some very large cupboards – the pantry being almost the size of the bathroom in my house. Apart from setting up a new budget, we also spent a day doing an overhaul of their cupboards. I won’t dissect what we found but suffice to say they didn’t need to visit the supermarket for a month and that alone saved $1,000 – just from using the stuff accumulated in their cupboards first.

Sometimes the answers to our greatest financial problems are right under our very nose

BudgetBitchLogoCarmel McCartin is known as The Budget Bitch. She specialises in Personal Budget Planning, Budget Coaching and Budget Education enterprise.

Carmel writes for the Border Mail Newspaper and is the author of “Money Tips from the Budget Bitch”

Handbag hangers by Sassi Sam

sassi20sam20pink20175pixWhat a great idea this is.  I don’t know about you, but I find it hard to store my handbags so that they aren’t squashed out of shape or buried at the back of the cupboard somewhere.  I can tell you that I thick coating of dust doesn’t make your bag look any more attractive!

A handbag hanger from Sassi Sam is a great solution to the bag storage problem.   The hanger is 100cm long and 10.5cm wide and is made especially for Sassi Sam.  It is made of 100% cotton and the construction is excellent.   The hanger has an eyelet at the top so you can hang it on a hook somewhere or slip it over the head of a coathanger and hang it in your wardrobe.  It has seven loops which close with a strong press stud.  They will hold large bags easily.

The hanger is well made and strong and I love the pink pattern (my favourite of the designs)   It can hold quite heavy bags.  It could also be used when you have space shortages in your wardrobe – hang your hangers fron the loops and it becomes a portable wardrobe!  It could also hold belts, scarves or even necklaces, too.

I recommend the Handbag Hanger – well made, useful and pretty too.  Grab one from Sassi Sam today.  It deserves a 5 Cherry Rating.

5c

sass

Aussie Online Stores

aslI love shopping online.  I don’t have to go out in the cold and hunt anongst crowds for that elusive bargain.  I can lounge slothfully in front of my computer in my lovely doona boots and shop online.

Aussie Shopping List is a great site that lists some wonerful online stores.  It only lists Australian stores so you know that your goods will be there fast and freight won’t cost the earth.

There are stores for beauty, fashion, children’s products, photography, gifts, perfume and much more.   New listings are being added all the time.  So next time you need to shop, do it in your slippers!

Ms FeetUp’s Slippers by Blu Moose

My feet are so cold these days.  Winter is a cruel beast, isn’t it?  When you spend as much time with your feet up as I do it is even worse.  Let’s face it, the only exercise these feet get is when I wiggle my toes!

evalwbootpinksideI spotted these beauties recently.  They are going to be mine.  In fact, I should have called this story “Ms FeetUp’s Love Affair”.  Just look at them.  Warm, cosy, non-slip , fitted around the ankle and pink!  What more could a girl want.

These gorgeous Doona Boots are made by Blu Moose.  They are  like little doonas for your feet.  My favourite is the pink Eva model here in the picture.  Grab some yourself to get your feet through this cold-hearted season.